I understand from Jackie that Mom mistakenly thinks Russell and I are paying for their whole Anniversary trip to Hawaii, since
'I told' Daddy in the note while in the hospital. By they way, I realize now I should have talked that over with all of you before I told Daddy about the trip, but I was just writing the note and was thinking of things he needs to look forward too and to get healthier. Sorry about that :(
What do you all feel is the best way to tell M&D the trip is not a gift just from R&ME. Should I say from the six of us, and let them find out at the party it's from everyone. But then they will probably be telling people about the trip the 6 of us are doing for them, then the guest might NOT want to donate more thinking it's already taken care of! So how much, is too much, to tell them. I didn't say anything much about it because I didn't want to say too much. So I guess my not saying too much led them to think it was a gift from R&ME. So I would appricate advice on this, I don't want them telling people for the rest of the year that the trip is from R&ME.
That all sounds confusing, I hope it makes sense :)
I have confirmed an exchange week at a timeshare. The reason I did it already was, I was on the phone with them booking a timeshare for our Cancun trip and I was asking about Hawaii in December, they right away said, that's probably not gonna happen, December is Hawaii's busiest month, they are usually booked a year or two or three in advance. But they searched ALL the islands for the ENTIRE months of NOV and DEC. And found one resort with one week Dec 5 -12 that someone had cancelled that same day. So I thought I should confirm it since otherwise we might have to get a hotel which would cost
7x as much and wouldn't have a kitchen. I'll have to double check but I think the whole week was
only $199. So the
major expenses we have to try to cover from gifts is the airline flights there and back, the inter-island flights and the car rentals or taxis plus any money for food, entertainment, sight-seeing etc.
Hope that explains everything.
By the way, Bella's last day with her cast was yesterday and she is doing great, I'm trying to get her to take it easy for one more week. We will have her 5th birthday cake with the Hodges, M&D and Cheryl on Friday!